Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
– Robert Frost, The Road Not Taken
These words of Robert Frost have always been among my favorite. I read them for the first time as a young boy, and they always evoked in me a feeling of both familiarity and curiosity. Growing up in rural northeastern Pennsylvania, only a few hours from New England, I spent much of my childhood walking through wooded paths not much different than the one envisioned by Frost. So I could easily relate to his words on that level. Yet another part of me has always viewed these words with mysterious wonder. What was down these roads? Why was one less traveled? What surprises awaited the intrepid explorer who ventured to the end? As a kid I always wanted to be there with Frost, traveling the same road to see what he discovered at the end. Little did I know at the time that my own journey would lead me down another road less traveled that would find me preparing for ministry in the same small, rural New Hampshire town that Robert Frost once called home. That’s right, rural New Hampshire. This may come as a surprise to some, but we are not endeavoring to plant a church in a large metropolitan area, or even in a smaller suburban area. Instead, we are focusing our efforts upon a relatively sparsely populated county in northern New Hampshire whose land area is greater than that of the state of Rhode Island, but with a population of only 89,000. In fact, this revelation has come as a surprise to a few people I’ve talked to about our ministry. The impression among some seems to be that there are no people in rural America, or least not enough people for it to be worthwhile ministering there. And don’t get me wrong. There is certainly a great need for church planting and gospel proclamation throughout the cities and suburbs, and I am grateful to God for those who are endeavoring to reach the lost in those areas, and I pray that God would bless their ministries and allow them to produce much fruit for His glory. Yet there seems to be a tendency among some, especially within the last several years, to elevate the importance of urban ministry while in the process devaluing the importance of ministry in other contexts. For example, there is often talk among missiologists and church planters of how the urban areas of our country continue to grow. As a result, we’re often told that if we are to be serious about ministry we must focus our attention on the urban centers of America. Yet this call to urban-centric ministry doesn’t take into account all the facts. While it is true that the population of America’s cities are on the rise, what is often not reported is that this increase in population is primarily among those age 25-34, with the peak age being 25-27. But by the time these same 25-34 year olds reach the age of 41 many of them have left the city as they marry, have children, and begin seeking more stable, safer, and less expensive lives away from the action and excitement that drew them to the city to begin with during their younger and more carefree days.[1] I can attest to this reality myself, as I witnessed firsthand the departure of many young, growing families from New York City when I worked there as a professional mover almost ten years ago. Even as I’ve talked recently with those ministering in urban settings this reality has been expressed to me, as well as the challenges this can pose for urban congregations, who see many young, often dedicated believers join in membership with them, only to leave within a few years after they finish college, marry, or begin having kids.This has obvious implications for ministry that is beyond the scope of this article to discuss. But at the very least this trend shows us that if a church planter wants to establish a church that has the potential for long-term stability and spiritual growth among the membership the city may not always be the best place to go. An urban-centric ministry approach also fails to take into consideration that there are still more than 62 million people or 18% of the population living in rural America, spread out over at least 74% of the U.S. land area.[2] Throughout these wide swaths of the American landscape are thousands of unchurched and unreached communities that are in desperate need of the saving message of the gospel of Jesus Christ. So while there is certainly a need for the gospel in urban areas, we can’t focus all of our attention on the cities and in the process leave the people of rural America to die in their sins without an opportunity to hear God’s message of salvation. If we are truly concerned about reaching our nation with the gospel, we must be intentional about planting churches and proclaiming Christ in even the most remote parts of our nation. Demographics aside, other factors can also feed into a fascination with urban ministry. As Darryl Hart points out in a recent article on rural ministry, there is a tendency among Christians to love the dramatic and the extraordinary. As a result, we often love to hear riveting stories about great transformations of people whose lives were wrecked by sin before finding salvation in Jesus Christ.[3] This can in turn lead to a strong appeal to urban ministry, because stories like these are easier to come by in the big city, where lives of decadence, disillusionment, and disenfranchisement are more prevalent than in many other places. But ministry in rural settings is often less spectacular than this and forces us to take greater satisfaction in the routine aspects of life and to see God’s grace at work among ordinary people through the ‘ordinary means of grace.’ By ‘ordinary means of grace’ I’m referring to the designation often made in the Reformed tradition for what the Bible describes as the primary means by which God dispenses His saving and sanctifying grace to His elect. These means are the reading and preaching of the Word, the administration of the sacraments/ordinances of the church, and prayer.[4] As Ligon Duncan explains, “These are the main ways God’s people grow. We are saved by grace (alone), through faith (alone), in Christ (alone). But the instruments, the tools of God’s grace to bring us to faith and grow us in grace are the Word, prayer, and sacraments. Nothing else we do in the church’s program of ministry should detract from these central instruments of grace, and indeed everything else we do should promote and coalesce with them.”[5] Yet the grace that comes from these ordinary means doesn’t often produce instant results, whether in bringing salvation to the lost or in providing sanctification for believers. Rather, God’s means of grace often work upon people over long periods of time, in ways that aren’t immediately perceptible to the casual observer, and through a process of spiritual transformation that seldom produces immediate, visible signs of change. This is at least one reason why ministry in a rural context can be so helpful. When you’ve grown accustomed to living where life moves at a slower pace and where everyone takes more time to do just about everything, you can learn more easily to grow content with God when He too chooses to sometimes slowly and patiently work through His people by His means of grace to accomplish His will in their lives. This isn’t meant to imply that those in urban ministry contexts don’t rely upon God’s ordinary means of grace for accomplishing their ministries. In fact, some of the greatest examples of a faithfulness to the ‘ordinary means’ can be found in churches located in cities like New York, Philadelphia, or Washington D.C. But as Hart points out, there is a tendency that can arise in urban ministry contexts to seek out the extraordinary examples of God’s redemption to the point of disregard and even dissatisfaction with examples of ordinary conversions. This in turn can cause believers to lose sight of the contentment and joy that can so often be found through the average and ordinary things of life, as we wait patiently for God to act in His own good time. Sure, it takes more time to plant a church in a rural area, more time to do just about everything. And a rural church planter like myself will probably never have a church that is very large. And there are bound to be many other unique challenges that I will face as a rural minister that ministers in other contexts may never encounter. But the benefits of planting a church, and doing life and ministry along the road less traveled, out in the rural parts of America, I think, far outweigh the struggles and obstacles to be faced. Because it is often in these rural areas, amidst the grandeur of God’s creation, in the midst of the daily routines of life, and among ordinary people, living ordinary lives, that God through His ‘ordinary means of grace’ accomplishes some of the most extraordinary things as He miraculously saves sinners and transforms them into the image of His Son “from one degree of glory to another,” (2 Cor. 3:18, ESV).[1] Joel Kotkin, “Why America’s Young and Restless Will Abandon Cities for Suburbs,” New Geography, July 20, 2011, http://www.newgeography.com/content/002349-why-america%E2%80%99s-young-and-restless-will-abandon-cities-for-suburbs; Haya L. Nasser, “American Cities to Millennials: Don’t Leave,” USA Today, December 4, 2012, http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2012/12/03/american-cities-to-millennials-dont-leave-us/1744357. [2] Matthew Spandler-Davidson, “Why We Need More Churches in Small Towns,” Gospel Coalition, January 6, 2013, http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2013/01/06/why-we-need-more-churches-in-small-towns; “Defining the Rural Population,” U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, http://www.hrsa.gov/ruralhealth/policy/definition_of_rural.html. [3] Darryl Hart, “If Cooking Slowly and Growing Organically Are in Why is Rural Ministry Out,” Front Porch Republic, July 21, 2009, http://www.frontporchrepublic.com/2009/07/if-cooking-slowly-and-growing-organically-are-in-why-is-rural-ministry-out. [4] See Matt. 26:26-28; 28:18-20; 1 Cor. 11:25-26; 1 Tim. 2:1, 8; 4:13; 2 Tim. 4:2, Westminster Shorter Catechism, Question 88, and Keach’s Baptist Catechism, Question 89.
[5] Ligon Duncan, “The Ordinary Means of Growth,” Tabletalk Magazine, October 1, 2007, http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/ordinary-means-growth.
